Monday, March 12, 2007


Tuesday, March 13, 2007
why do ppl talk of PAIN????

Our lives are a series of hellos and goodbye's.the uncertainity in time lies in the length of time between each.however brief or long the span of time between hellos and goodbyes,an end to whatever has begun is natural.it is well taught by the seasons of the year as they begin,move with steadiness and patience,and then they CONCLUDE....while seasons bestow a rich plumage of colors,textures,insights and beauty,they also bring a clear message that with every thaw or harvest a time shall come wheneach must CHANGE;each must END.Over a period of time i'v learnt that ENDINGS are part of life as much as BEGINNINGS,its just that endings are often painful and harder.Accidently,i went thru an acquaintance's entryabout pain!!!!found it very weird that someone could actually describe pain in words!!!!so thot why not i make an attempt to show ppl the other side....lol....thou i dont term ending of any chore as pain.what i believe is , endings might seem painful,they even place us in unfamiliar territory emotionally,psychologically and / or physically.we find ourselves in thee unknown as a result of the departure of someone or something known,sometimes deeply known.Such insecurity and unfamiliarity because of loss of a person/thing brings pain but can be healed only in its own time by the one who bears it,a pain borne by each person.Endings of all types of relationships with people,places and things challenge and change us.People who find pain in broken relationships and other things that probably dint work for them have a misconception that its pain.Finding strength and restoration is the hope and goal for those who grieve........Donno if i'm eligible enough to suggest people who like being victimised and enjoy gathering sympathy.but i guess to overcome one's pain one must use all his/her resources,whatever they maybe:spiritual,emotional,physical,therapeutic,books,movies,family members,friends to go on so you can go through....Losses in life,however painful and clouded,can bring us to new beginnings and new purposes-At all endings beginnings await........MAY u discover what those are.............God bless ppl in PAIN......................................

3 comments:

Unknown said...

heylo? saath mein kuch likhoge bhi ya kora picture hi chipkaoge......

Suresh S Murthy said...

Welcome:)

Maria Maria said...

liked ur style of writn...u realy did exceed ma xpctations...wud get to learn a thng or two frm u. nw all that remains to be seen is how does Aditi Chauhan outdo herself?!!! u rock!!!